So if you come to my site and it is looking a mess, it is probably because I’m trying to change up this site. It is not what I want to be at the time being but I will get it there. I had never used strictly wordpress before so coding and designing a wordpress theme is new to me. I figured out how to tweak the default theme but I want to have my own with my own style. So I will be looking for inspiration and tutorials on how to do that. If you know of any helpful tutorials, please feel free to share. Until then, I’m going to use this free one I found. 
I have several links that may help. I’m going to email you at the address I got from your comment because Wordpress will think I’m spam if I comment them. Hopefully the email addy is right!.